Life will somehow always get the best of us, and put us in situations that reflects our flaws....
We are imperfect....just for being souls in a path of learning....
Humour seems to help me alot when i see how silly or nevrotic I can be around my own child at times..and she seems to becomes very happy on watching me laugh of myself.....
Yesterday the situation was this...- We where at the skincare clinic, and she had her nails and feet done..and when i was about to pay...she got her jacket and shoes on...
..and then took for a run..without waiting for me....
She run out the clinic and straight home...
I run as fast as I could after her...and this little one has quite the paste....
- Nora, Nora...wait...Nora...screaming my lungs out... I was scared, scared for cars, cause outside was a parking lot..she past by it, but else it is a car free sone....just parking lots here and there...
-Nora this will be the last time I screamed.....she heard that...so she stopped a little...cause nor she nor i knew what i was talking about.....
But then she got more pulse and continued to run Until she came to the door and grandma opened up...
I came eventually inside also...my pulse high and super sweath....
Now Nora, you dont just take off like that....
She came at me and gave me a kick in the knee...
- You dont kick mom Nora!
She just ran to the sofa and sat in front of the telly....
I came in and sat beside her......
Now...Nora...hmm....I wrapped my hands around her carefully....- Do you feel like a big girl when you take off from mommy like that....i asked in a friendly tone....
- YES! she screamed.....
Then i started to laugh....
-Now...do you find it funny when you see mommy freak out like that...scared for you...?
-Yes, yes...it is alot of fun she said....
and we both giggled a bit..... - You look stupid when you get like that....she said.....
I realized that i probably did look kinda silly freaking out that much...the girl is not that little anymore...she knows her way home....and i guess this is what she is trying to show me...
Know I do not know...if this is the right way or the wrong way...maybe other parents would do things much better....heck and don`t even know if laughing about it is the right way to go....
But this is what felt natural to us.....
And I am certain I just might be calmer next time this happens.....
Rain or shine.....
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