Children are born pure.
They might be souls, given secondchances to life.
But in my mind, they are messengers from heaven.
They come to teach us. Especially as parent`s, they teach us how to live a good life.
They bring morals, and ways of thought.
Therefor we as parent`s should keep high expectations to ourselfs aswell.
We cannot do everything perfect.
But we it is allowed to dream, give space for love to ourself and then we can return that love to our children.
If we do not feel well, we should also rest.
It is better for the child to have some moment`s during the day away from the parent, playing alone
or watching telly, then to be with a parent that is grumpy and in a bad mood.
Take time to breath and calm down...children can be sensitive towards moods.
I once read this article about a mom who suffered from post partium depression, and she told that when she felt the worse, she could not handle her baby`s cry`s, and just locked the baby in her room while she rested in the living room with a cool drink on the couch.
It does not mean that one should not pick up a baby crying, it just means that you also need a break at times.
Children have there own will, it is hard as a parent to remember that.
They are small independent thinking creatures, just as ourselfs.
But they do need guidance. And to learn to accept a -no- is part of that guidance aswell.
They are our teachers, and we are also there teachers.
They feed on our love and on our attention.
In my eyes, they come from heaven.
And in heaven there are good morals, morals means safety for children.
And since there also is alot of freedom in heaven together with this morals.
Children are therefor very playful....and seem often to indicate chaos.
But they are not chaos.
Because to much chaos can also make children scared.
A good balance between rules and yet space for there freedom is the best.
The word evolution, it means change, it means change for the better.
This world is making an evolutionary jump into the future.
And the future human, is an expert on children.
But there is a moral standard.
It is very real.
You can call it Karma or whatever you like.
But humanity needs to do good, and espescially towards the child.
And also take care of the planet for the future of the child.
A high moral standard is the thing.
It does not mean prettier clothes, it does not mean prettier and more fashionable furniture.
It simply means, the nurturing of a good heart.
Qualitys which we are to bring forward to our children.
It means to do good, even if you do not feel like it.
It means to do even better, even if you do not even know what that is.
It means to think before you act.
It means to think love and safety.
A child can receive love, and have alot of safety, even if it might have a dirty shirt on.
To be all goodytochys about the details in not the important thing, it is the whole picture that counts.
There is alot of knowledge about children around nowadays, we can read and get tips on practically everything, but the most important is to follow a good heart, and the good intentions...
Heal your heart.
Planet earth is having more and more children.
And humanity is to take care of there safety.
Safety is the keyword to all children.
They need safety, in all manners.
They need you to be an ideal human.
You to represent safety and a high moral standard.
Nor you nor me knows enough of the world, the universe, nor what awaits beyond.
Have confidence in that you are a good person,..and on earth to give love and receive love.
Mother earth is a loving mother, soo can you be a loving mother or father.
That gives safety, and loving guidance
And fasten your seat belt`s...cause you are entering a nation of the future.
Mother earth gives us many gifts without us knowing ,children are one, and technology is another.
We should try and treat both with the outmost respect.
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